Getting Married Long-Distance: Our Online Wedding Story
Getting Married Long-Distance: Our Online Wedding Story
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Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from two different continents.
When you’re in a cross-border relationship, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel impossible.
We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.
Then we found out we could say “I do” over Zoom — for real.
At first, we thought it was too good to be true. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah allow fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re 100% valid.
We decided to go for it.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- We uploaded our IDs and filled out a quick form.
- We scheduled our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
- We invited our small circle to join via Zoom.
- And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.
I said “I do” from my apartment. My spouse-to-be said it from their military base.
It was unforgettable. It was simple. And it was ours.
The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our legal marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.
Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has approved it — no issues at all.
If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is recognized, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — quick wedding even if you’re not in the same place.
We’re proof that marriage can happen anywhere — and that what matters most is the vows.
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